I
went to Kenya on behalf of Bryce Homes in November 2018. I left home with
some apprehension, not sure what to expect. It had been almost two years
since I had last been there with Roger Oakland. I came home in February 2017
very sick, as I had contracted malaria on my trip. It took months for me to
fully recover.
On
that trip we had also discovered some problems in the leadership, we had to
make substantial changes to the Kenyan board in personnel and the way they
operate. As you can imagine, it is hard to know how things are really going
if no one is there to observe first hand. Email is a wonderful tool but
there has to be a lot of trust in those left in charge.
On
arrival this past November, I could tell very quickly that the program was
doing well. The leadership that we had left in place on our last visit was
working very well together. They had a genuine love and care for the widows
and orphans in the program.
I was
encouraged as we traveled and met each widow and child, the changes in their
physical appearance was very evident. Many of the widows, before joining
Bryce Homes, were very skinny and quite sick. The thing that blessed me the
most was the change in their mental and spiritual health. Their appearance
was different. There was a brightness on their faces that was not there when
they joined the Bryce Homes family. Many who had been very sick, look
healthy. My words fall short when trying to explain the unbelievable change
that has come about in the lives of these widows and orphans through this
ministry.
I
would like to tell you about one widow and her family. Her name is Phoebe.
She was a lonely, destitute woman when we met her in 2015. She was widowed
and had no hope for herself or her children. Her living conditions were
deplorable. She was left with six children and no means of support. She was
skinny and untrusting. The children where dirty and also untrusting. As we
surveyed her living conditions, we quickly saw that her house was unlivable
by any standards. It was a small hut with a dirt floor. The roof leaked
badly when it rained.
When
I looked inside it became clear why the children were all so dirty. It had
rained recently, and the floor was mud. 4 to 6 inches of red mud. They had
nothing to sleep on but one small bed. Not nearly big enough for all seven
of them. So, they took turns sleeping on the bed and on the mud floor. It
broke our hearts for them.
Roger
decided that the house was unlivable, and plans were made to add her to the
program and build her a new house. Over the next few months the money was
raised and sent. One of the pastors was a carpenter and he built her a new
home with a small indoor wood stove for cooking. There was also an outhouse
and shower house built. No running water or indoor plumbing but it was dry
and there was enough bed space for everyone. Still 2 or 3 to a bed, but a
vast improvement. The family was put on monthly food support to help ease
some of the burden that life had thrust upon them.
Fast
forward to this visit in 2018. When we approached the house, the kids where
in front of the house singing. They were clean and happy. The distrust that
I had seen a few years before had changed to gratitude. They proudly told me
their names and that they were attending school. They had been unable to
attend before because of lack of school fees. Now because of the support
from Bryce homes, their mother was able to earn enough money to pay their
school fees. Before Bryce homes, every cent she made bought food to keep her
family alive. She couldn’t afford the luxury of providing an education for
her kids. Her oldest son told me how he planned to go to university and
become a doctor. Was this the same family I had met 3 years ago? These
kids had hope and a bright future. Such a different perspective than they
had just a few years ago. They sang some songs they had learned in Sunday
school.
Phoebe discussed a business plan that she had made to make herself
self-sufficient so she could graduate from the Bryce Homes program; So that
someone in even greater need could be helped. I did my best to encourage
them to serve God and to be thankful to Him for all the wonderful things
that had happened in their lives. I prayed with them and we left with full
hearts knowing that God is in control and cares about even the least of
these.
This
story repeats itself over and over. Widows without hope turning to the Lord;
praying for an answer to their terrible circumstance. Then thousands of
miles away on another continent, someone is prompted by the Holy Spirit to
give a little to help those less fortunate. Every widow and orphan I talked
to asked me to thank all the people that have given of their resources so
that they can have a life.
THANK
YOU SO MUCH!

Phoebe 2018 - The change in her life is evident.
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